Are you Committed to your Soul or to your Struggle?

This is a powerful question to ask yourself.

Not just once, but as you go about the day.

As you’re making your choices, what is your main motivator?

Is it your belief that God, Spirit, The Universe, Your Higher Self… is guiding you and has your back?

Or is it the false idea, the limiting belief, that yesterday’s struggles are somehow glued to you through tomorrow?

Your committment is the glue that sticks a situation to you. Release from the committment and you’re free. Commit to a new goal, or a new path, and it’s yours. Simple as that. Simple doesn’t mean easy, it just means simple. You’ve got to hold something you’ve glued together for a while to make sure that it sticks. Glue takes a while to dry.

 

 

 

I’ve spent plenty of time committed to the struggle too, so I definitely feel ya. Two years ago, I was deep in it. I’d come home from an office job that was just to pay the bills, that stressed me out to the point where I was getting sick all the time and felt so drained I had no interest in anything.

It was one of those jobs where the boss is a good guy, but yelled and swore at everyone. As an empath and a highly sensitive person, I just could not take it. It was the kind of job that makes a person like me cry in the bathroom.

When I’d get home, I’d put the quickest food possible into a pot or in the oven, and zone out to Netflix with the only free time I had (which felt like none even though it was hours). My health was SO far out of whack from stress affecting my hormones (which control SO many things in the body) that most of my money went towards seeing a naturopath to fix it.  I knew my everyday life was making me really unhappy, but I was very good at distracting myself from it, as a way to cope with that fact that I didn’t think I could change it any time soon.

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Sometimes you can’t see how far you’ve strayed from your path until you put down your favorite form of distraction.

I was so focused on improving my health with the little energy I had, but here’s the thing. My lifestyle was throwing me back out of whack every time I’d get back in it. I was so committed to this job that was slowly killing me, and to the coping mechanisms (escaping through entertainment) that I used to try and unwind, and felt so unstable that I was afraid, SO afraid to risk losing that sense of foundation. Even though it was crumbling under me, and taking me down with it.

My lifestyle, and my committment to my struggle, were what needed fixing.

Does any of this sound familiar? Because the more people I talk to, the more people I see scared to take leaps of faith (big or small) to start to root their foundation in their soul, with the support of the universe, instead of being committed to the struggle of going against what’s actually healthy for them.

Leaps of faith don’t have to be massive. They can be as simple as looking at what’s out of alignment with your inner truth, and changing one small thing at a time to get closer to it.

There is a divine blueprint, a path laid out by your soul before you come here, and you can find it by feeling into what lights you up, vs. what shuts you down. Our lives are a combination of fate and free will. This path is always laid out for us, but it’s up to us to align with it, and choose to walk it.

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There is a unique path just for you, divinely designed for your truest fulfillment.

For my journey, it took me some time to make the changes, but I took things one step at a time. I got a job that seemed more chill at first, doing office work from home. It gave me the opportunity to invest in coaching for the first time, and start REALLY building the spiritual coaching & energy work business I’d been dabbling with for three years. Investing in myself and in my soul’s purpose was the most powerful that I’d ever done. Having someone there to encourage and guide me back to my own center, keep me focused on my goals so I woudn’t give up or completely change paths (like I’d done over and over again before that).

I was finally starting to GROUND what my life had been teaching me and preparing me for for all these years. And YES, it was still a struggle. My job at that time started getting more and more stressful. I stopped and started a handful of times to rest and recenter, but never truly gave up. And over the course of only a year, I had gained so much confidence, had learned to trust myself to be able to make a living in a way that didn’t murder me in the face all week, but actually aligned me deeper with my core so that I could help others in the way that I knew I was meant to.

It started getting exciting to be alive again, because I had calls lined up with wonderful people who I was helping to line up with their path in the same way that I had been lining up with mine. These were people who were thanking me for our coaching sessions giving them the clarity and courage to do things like going on adventures to Alaska to find themselves after years in the corporate world, or realizing completely new ways that they could put their love of transformational festivals, retreats, shamanic plant medicines, and sound healing together into event ideas that were completely unique to their path and gifts to share with the world.

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Ganesh: Remover of Obstacles

I started to become so lit up, and inspired. And even though I was still working that office job that was getting crazy stressful as they kept adding more to my plate and speeding up the pace, and making me sick again, I was on fire. I started doing more and more in my free time because I was determined to transition out of it. I was ready for a new environment and to be in my own element again.

I started doing reiki and readings on a psychic hotline type of website. I started collaborating with websites that were reaching out to me as I kept sharing my message. I had some money saved up and decided when I got really sick one week, that I couldn’t keep doing that to myself, I had to let go of that job. That was a major turning point for me. I had become so committed to my purpose that it was starting to replace the crumbling foundation that I was refusing to let take me down this time.

I kept taking step after step… writing, coaching, reiki & intuitive energy work, readings. Helping people. Empowering people. Inspiring people to be who they’re meant to be more strongly. Feeling into what I truly needed right then. And trusting. Letting go of the fears one by one, and trusting.

And then, as you’ll find happens when you commit to aligning with your soul’s true path… everything started falling into place.

I moved to Asheville this past week. Through focusing on alignment and taking action with INTENSE determination, it only took me a week to sort out the details, pack, travel, and feel at home. Never before in my life could I have set everything up and moved in a week. It was one of those situations where you look back and realize that we’re all capable of so much more than we realize when we step into alignment with our souls, our spirit, our inner being, and allow it to flow no matter what challenges come up.

I connected with the perfect roomies to live with who became instant friends. The perfect spa to be a part of. And got started on a new program with my own coach to really make the most of this powerful transition and first steps into this next incredible phase of my life.

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So, I have to ask you… what is your committment to?

Your struggle or your soul?

Are you trusting and aligning, or suffering because you’re too afraid to let go of what’s dragging you down?

What in your lifestyle needs to be nudged back into alignment that’s been throwing you out of whack? What committments need to be broken altogether? And what new ones can we start to put into place?
I’m ALWAYS here to support you and guide you, into your own truth, so that you can show up, and ground your purpose, and make the impact that you’re here to make in the world.

Message me here for a free consult. I’d love to help you gain clarity and the courage to make a change.

yoursouliscalling

How to Stop Settling | You Deserve More

3 Keys to the Better Life You Deserve


You deserve more.  I’m gonna put it bluntly, because it’s true.

You work hard, you do your self-work, you make a point of helping others.

Believe it or not, you are worthy of great things.

But a lot of the time, because of the challenges, or our conditioning, we refuse to believe it.

It’s time to take a closer look. Be honest with yourself. This is a lot farther than you were, but it’s not what you were dreaming of. There’s pieces missing that you’ve been hesitant to believe are possible to change for you.

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Where are you settling in life?

Do you feel loved and appreciated by the people you’ve chosen to surround yourself with?

Is your home beautiful and organized, and full of loving energy?

Are you pursuing your passion daily and seeing the rewards?

Are you feeling connection with your spirit and a clear sense of direction more often than not?

Do you have enough fun, and free time?

Do you have as much money as you’d like to?

Do you feel good about yourself, the way you move through the world, and your accomplishments?

Are you relaxed, energized, and healthy?

Are you expanding your mind, your skills, and getting creative?

 

If any of these questions gave you a shrinking feeling or made you laugh as if it were silly to expect that to happen for you… girl, you’re settling for less than you deserve.

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There are three main components that come into play.

 

 

Worthiness

First and foremost, you’re not going to take any actions to give yourself what you deserve if you don’t believe you’re worth the effort, or can let yourself accept your prizes with open appreciation.

You’ve got to remember that nobody in the world has been, or ever will be, perfect. Our “perfection” lies in our divine essence, our unique qualities, and our ability to grow and change. The most powerful transformation comes from our ability to let go of the past and move forward, and our ability to see the beauty in the hidden places in life, including in the parts of ourselves we’ve been rejecting for years.

What is it that makes you feel unworthy?

Usually it stems from ways that someone else has judged us in the past, or a way that we tend to judge the world around us.

Do you feel like you’re not worthy of unconditional love because you’ve made this mistake or that mistake and never forgiven yourself? Or maybe because of the ridiculous beauty standards shoved down our throats since childhood making us questiong our inherent lovability?

Do you feel crappy about where you’re at in life because someone (maybe even yourself) told you it wasn’t good enough for the age you are right now? Instead of encouraging you to appreciate your accomplishments and reminding you that you’re capable of anything, and helping you come up with a game plant to get to where you really want to be?

Do you just not prioritize your own worth because you’re so busy taking care of everyone else, that you’re too afraid to admit how badly you need to rest and do things for you, because if you stopped, everything would fall apart? And then you’d feel super guilty about it?

Firstly, whether your lack of prioritizing your worth is one of these, or something unique to you, you are NOT alone.

We all have some level of challenge when it comes to believing we can do this or that it’s even acceptable for use, because we’re not used to thinking we deserve it.

Our subconscious minds are filled with judgements from the people we were surrounded by when we were growing up, and these things tend to stick with us, hidden in the depths, secretly influencing what we believe about our abilities and our worth.

If you imagine yourself with a million dollars that you just earned from doing something really easy and aligned with your purpose, engaged to some otherworldly-level-of-gorgeous person who’s also super intelligent… walking into to your family’s holiday dinner, or a room full of people you went to high school with, I bet all kinds of uncomfortable scenarios start to form in your head.

This guy will be judging you out of jealousy, someone else will be judging you because they think you’re probably some kind of a fake, because they believe rich people are all just selfish jerks and con-artists. Someone else will be judging that there’s no way the relationship will last, coming up with every reason they can make up on the spot, because they feel insecure about not having attracted someone so impressive in their own life.

Our own inner judgements and insecurities about ourselves talk the same way when we start to think about the things we really want in life. And since we’ve got to believe we deserve these wonderful things in order to pursue them without giving up, it’s our job to figure out which ones we’re struggling with, and see the truth behind the judgement or lie. And the truth is always that we’re good enough, we’re lovable, we’re worthy, and we’re free to change our situation.

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Boundaries

So, once we’ve got the ide of which limiting belief we’re here to reprogram so that we can stop settling and start improving our lives, the next step is to draw a very clear line between what is acceptable and what is not.

Now, depending on what it is that you’re changing, it can look like a few different things, but it’s always going to include saying “yes” to what you’re worthy of and saying “no” to settling.
Wear the nice outfit in the back of your closet that you worry about getting dirty, so that you can feel gorgeous and abundant and magnificent.

Say no to the offer that is going to stress you out and make you feel like you’re contradicting what’s right for you.

Say YES to the opportunities that scare you, that feel risky and just beyond your reach.

Say HELL YES to the big move you’re not sure is safe to take.

Be smart, be practical, absolutely, but start DOING it!
In relationships, friendships, and partnerships, if you’re being disrespected, give an ultimatum, with a timeframe. If it’s not met, you deserve better, and you should leave. Or if it’s a really strong disrespect, just leave, girl.

If you feel stuck in a job that’s not what you actually care about and you’re miserable there, refuse to let yourself stay there any longer than you have to. Start looking for, or creating a better career for yourself, and truly dedicate yourself to it.

What you do for a living is what you spend the most hours of your life on. If you want to spend most of the hours of your life doing something more meaningful, than take it absolutely seriously, because it’s one of the most important changes you’ll ever make. Invest your time, your money, your energy, and your soul into making it real. What is it that you’d do in the world, that helps make it a better place every day, if you didn’t have to worry about money? That will give you a first glimpse into what will make you happier.

There’s no reason to be scared. There are always going to be more people, and more opportunities that are healthier for you, and more fulfilling, but you have to make room in your life for them.

Setting clear boundaries doesn’t just tell you, and also your subconscious mind, what you’re done with. It also tells the Universe. When you make it clear through your words and your actions that you are done with something in your life, whether it’s disrespect, being under-appreciated, or overworked, the Universe takes a note of that, and starts to close the doors to those energies, and open their opposites for you to stride proudly into.


Discipline (Dedication)

Ahhhh, discipline. That old friend lurking in the corner ready to smack you with a ruler if you get out of line. No, I’m just kidding. Don’t get discouraged, I’ve got something up my sleeve for ya.

That old method of crackin’ the whip may work for some people, but for me, it’s easier to work with myself, and use encouragement and goals to keep me sticking to my plan.

Discipline is one of those things in life that’s like a muscle. Even if you’ve always sucked with self-discipline (and I say this from experience, so trust me here) by taking baby-steps and working WITH yourself, you can see improvements faster than you’d expect to.

I used to be WILDLY undisciplined. Really, though. I’ve always been a wild-child, free-spirit, ethereal creature, and gypsy soul at heart. I would regularly tell time and space to suck it (and still do) but I hadn’t realized, until hitting age 29 and realizing I’d been putting off all the work I didn’t “feel like” doing towards my lofty business aspirations for literally a decade

During the majority of my 20s, although it was an absolutely beautiful journey full of potent transformation, I was caught up in a common pitfall of “law of attraction & lightworker types”… which is to accidentally get ungrounded, by following the “path of least resistance” and high vibrations and ease, instead of feeling into the path of your true calling, and grounding your soul fully, strengthening through the challenges that it comes with.

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It was then that I saw just how much I was holding myself back by not fully embracing my inner authority over my own life. I’ll be honest, it’s been very challenging for me, because I’d never done it before! But, regardless of that, I’ve made amazing progress, and it’s all thanks to redefining discipline as dedication, and taking baby steps to make things easy to integrate a little bit at a time.

I find that this works with my clients too. Every week we’ll have one main action step to take, to move them closer to their goal. It’s the one action that reminds them how dedicated they are to their path, their purpose, their improvement, and grounds it into the rhythm of their life right now, as a new steady beat coming from the heart of their soul. And because it was just one task (two if they’re really on fire) it’s manageable.

It’s still challenging, because it’s something new, it’s something important, and, since it came up in a coaching session, it’s something they’re struggling with. But, they’ve also got backup, through being reminded of WHY they’re doing this. When they feel stuck or frustrated, they’ll send me a message for that extra boost, that reminder that they decided they’re done settling for less than they deserve, and help them push through it. But we all also have the ability to be our own reminder.

The mantra that came to me this week is very simple and is working really well for me.

Just finish the sentence with what’s relevant to what you’re committed to doing in the moment.

 

“I deserve to be a disciplined woman who…”

When you’re not feeling strong in a confrontation, tell yourself:
“I deserve to be a disciplined woman who …says no to disrespect.”

Deciding what to wear to get out of couch-potato mode and feel fancy (hahaha!):
“I deserve to be a disciplined woman who …is beautiful and well groomed and decorated.”

Struggling to get yourself to work out, or choose healthy foods:
“I deserve to be a disciplined woman who …has a healthy body.”

Struggling to get yourself to do the tasks needed to create a business out of your passion:
“I deserve to be a disciplined woman who …runs a successful business that helps people.”

Struggling to let yourself take a break when you desperately need one:
“I deserve to be a disciplined woman who… values herself and her well-being.”


These three keys, when put together, will help you to stop settling, and let yourself have the wonderful life you truly deserve.

You’re a good person, you’ve got a massive heart, and I’m looking forward to seeing you dedicating yourself to being truly fulfilled and nourished, because I’ve got a feeling it’s a long time comin’.


 

What are you feeling, as you’ve been reading this, that you’re opening up to letting yourself believe you deserve, and dedicating yourself to making happen?

Looking to dig a little deeper, and have real, grounded support to help get you through?  

Learn more about the coaching and energy work that I offer


to assist you through this journey of grounding your soul,


so that you can feel more fulfillment, satisfaction, and freedom

every single day.

yoursouliscalling

Intuitive Healing/Reading Sessions

“Working with Jen has been massively transformative on so many levels. I’ve done two reiki sessions with her and she’s connected with such an open heart and eager ears. It’s been utterly lighthearted and fun as well as equally deep and very healing! It was a gentle experience where I felt seen, heard, loved and guided.

My first reiki session she explained the root of my core blocks, hidden karma and energetic imbalances that I hadn’t been aware of. The session itself was a beautiful meditative state where I felt my body become lighter and powerful physical shifts. She spent some time detailing everything that she had seen and I was amazed by how gifted and connected she is. It had given me answers to a lot of emotions I couldn’t identify as well as physical imbalances. I felt centered and empowered, like I dropped heavy baggage and was steered in the direction of my path.

I was reminded who I was and shown how guided I am, always. Before the second session I was having a lot of digestive issues and feeling so emotionally heavy. She worked through this with me and had shifted the energy entirely. She dives into your whole being physically, emotionally, energetically and really clears out any blocks while also giving the most heart-centered advice. She is such a beautiful soul with a powerful healing ability and the absolute sweetest and uplifting personality (which really, is a healing in itself). Her wisdom is expansive and her intentions are so pure and endearing, I am so blessed to have connected this way! Her work has weaved through my healing journey in the most impactful way.

I still drop into the advice and the messages that have come from the sessions and find the healing continue to trickle into everyday. Through my work with shamans, counselors as well as other reiki healers no one has been able to drop in like she has. Until next time! Much love !” 

– Carolyn Valentine, Mansfield MA 

Life, we often don’t notice, is really much more than it seems to be.  The world is a series of woven energy patterns and infinite possibilites that we move through.

In the work that I do with my clients, I combine my years of Reiki practice (Third Degree Reiki Master since 2010) with intuitive energy-work, the earthy pagan vibes that come naturally to me, the assistance of my (and your) guides and guardians, sound, movement, and intention to facilitate transformation in your field and align you to your core individual Truth.

This is always with the foundational intention of activating your unique divine blueprint… activating the potential of you being who you were divinely designed to be, walking your most fulfilling path, in the highest possible frequency reality of harmony for all of life that can be grounded here and now.

It can reach you wherever you are, and will give you what you need.

Which, sometimes, what we need isn’t the same as what we want.  Blockages will be realeased and can cause changes in our habits, patterns, and foundations.  So, be prepared for deep insights, facing harsh truths that profoundly free you, and more magical and synchronistic experiences in your everyday life.

Sessions can be conducted by video chat or phone.  For each session, we’ll set aside an hour and a half, so that there is time to perform the energy work, and then discuss the insights that were gathered, and touch briefly on how to best apply them to your life.

Insights can include any variety of information that your higher self and spiritual guides wish to impart to you during the session.  This information can range from starseed lineage information to animal totem presences, suggested herbs or crystals, and most commonly, plenty of detail about activities occuring around specific chakras or areas of the body, what is clearing, and often insight into the emotions, memories, or situations that play a part in the healing of that part of your field.

Booking Your Session

Inspired by a naturopath I used to see during difficult times, I offer a “pay it forward” system for my pricing.

Personally, I’ve always made it a priority to be patient, save up, and pay full price for energy work…

Because the more of your own dedication and personal energy that you put into something, the more deeply it grounds into your field, and the more present and dedicated to the experience you will be, amplifying your results.

However, we sometimes need something that is just beyond our reach…

And in a time when I really needed healing, a wondederful doctor offered this payment method and I was able to receive healing that I desperately needed, because other kind souls who were able to give a bit more, made this possible through their generous contributions and appreciation of this heartfelt approach.

The pricing options are as follows:

For those who truly need it now.
$126

Normal pricing.
$216

Pay it forward.
$286

To book your session, send a message here

To say hello, and share your availability over the next two weeks (pick two or three evenings that work for you to choose from)

And I’ll reply with a time that works for both of us, and let me know the pricing option that’s right for you.

It will be great to connect!

Much love, and talk soon!

Jen

P.S.  For those of you who are wondering, YES, I do teach classes…

However, I strongly recommend finding a local teacher you resonate with, unless you absolutely feel that I am the right person to teach you, as having local support and building community is so powerful and will bring so much goodness to your life and to the area where you live. 

I do rarely teach and attune over a distance if you feel very strongly that you should learn from me, and classes are offered in person during retreats.  Feel free to reach out if this is something you feel is right for you.

More testimonials…

“This experience was so great. Jennifer was extremely welcoming which in turn made feel open to discuss my problem. She was so professional, understanding, and knowledgeable.

Post our initial session I woke up feeling so refreshed and elated! & the magic is still manifesting here, it’s only day one!. Haha. Thank you Jennifer. I recommend her if you want true results and great customer service. She certainly goes the extra mile! :)”
-KD White – Hampton, VA

“You rock!!!  Thank you so much I appreciate it!!!  I couldn’t remember my dreams for the life of me last night but I know I was having them because my husband said I was tossing and turning and laughing and talking throughout my sleep and I woke up feeling energized and in a wonderful mood so thank you for that. ❤
-Shanell Renee – Los Banos, CA

“I was introduced to #Reiki back in 2012 by my best friend and cousin extraordinaire, @_aquarian.goddess_and GIRL. In those seven years since, I have seen some s**t. 

The introduction to Reiki and level one #attunement created this whole new world (a whoole neww woooooorld) for me. It completely shifted my perception of reality which has totally changed my life.

When you’re learning Reiki, you’re not just learning how to heal someone… You’re learning how to heal yourself. You’re learning how to approach things gently. You’re learning why you, or others, hurt. You’re learning healthy ways to get past things. You’re learning patience. You’re learning how to understand. You’re connecting. You can feel energy moving and flowing and breaking free and just unleashing and I gotta tell you, there’s nothing like it. 

It can be a seriously intense experience sometimes. I even have an example of how crazy this can get. I was in a kind of low place in 2014, and @_aquarian.goddess_ did this #hardcorehealing Reiki session on me one night before work and when I woke up in the morning… oh god. I was vomiting like crazy. She cleared so much junk out of me that I was physically purging. Like. It was INTENSE. Very soon after that, I left the job that was making me really unhappy, never to return, and began down a never ending path of growth, learning and evolution. 

Reiki also offers this hardcore sense of comfort. Even when it gets rough like that, you can almost feel someone rubbing your back or holding your hair or something. I dunno. It’s weird. But it’s awesome. 

The energy work Jen (@_aquarian.goddess_) does digs REALLY f*****g deep in there and just really gets to the root of it all to gently encourage detangling and intense reconstructive repair. 

The way I feel after receiving energy work, or even after my Reiki attunements from her, its’s just lightning fingertips. I always feel like I’m Queen Goddess, King of the Universe. My confidence levels elevate, my spirituality is stronger and clearer than ever before, my decision making is improved, I see ‘the bigger picture’ more clearly, I feel refreshed and just GOD. A MASTER OF THE FRICKIN UNIVERSE. *ROARS*

#DM@_aquarian.goddess_ if you’re interested in her energy work because it really gets so much deeper than just my past experiences. She’s seriously pure magick.”

-Niki Munster, Painesville OH

Soul Purpose Coaching

Hello, there, beautiful goddess! I’m SO happy that you’ve come here.

You are here for a reason. Every idea and dream you hold dear can help to make the world a more magical place for all of us.

My guess would be that you’re a passionate person with big dreams, and you’re wondering how I can help you.



What lovely goddesses I’ve had the honor of working with are saying:

“I recommend her if you want true results (…) the magic is still manifesting”

“This experience was so great. Jennifer was extremely welcoming which in turn made feel open to discuss my problem. She was so professional, understanding, and knowledgeable. Post our initial session I woke up feeling so refreshed and elated! & the magic is still manifesting here, it’s only day one!. Haha. Thank you Jennifer. I recommend her if you want true results and great customer service. She certainly goes the extra mile! :)”
-KD White – Hampton, Virginia

“You manifested like a faerie god mother (…) like “this is how you dig yourself up!”

I feel like I spent years underground like HELP I’VE BEEN BURIED ALIVE SOMEONE DIG ME UP
and you manifested energetically like a faerie god mother, handed me a shovel and were like “this is how you dig yourself up!”
– Niki Munster – Painesville, Ohio



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Goddess to Goddess Guidance

Working with me is a chance to get to know yourself on new levels, to bring clarity to what you feel will truly fulfill you, and to come up with a plan to make it a reality, with ongoing support and encouragement along the way.

First, you’ll share your hopes, dreams, struggles, and stressors, in a warm and welcoming conversation of unconditional acceptance from yours truly. Together, we’ll come up with a plan to begin to solidify the things you choose to bring into your life, and create in the world, and to dissolve those that hinder your happiness, and your growth, so that you can truly blossom, and make the impact that your heart is begging you to.

You’ll receive guidance and support through one-on-one, personal phone calls with me, once a week, or every two weeks, depending on what you feel is right for you.

This ongoing support will help to keep you inspired to keep moving forward on your path as we work together, helping you to move through any challenges that may come up as you grow, and your life evolves with you day by day.

Along with this, you’ll receive transformational energy work at the beginning of each month, and personalized affirmation recordings to reprogram your subconscious mind for a smoother transition.  This will amplify your results and make becoming the soul-aligned version of you that much easier.

I would absolutely love to work with you, to breathe life into your dreams and show you, through the power of your own efforts, and just the right nudges along the way, how much more you are capable of than you ever realized.

The world truly needs you to live your passions to your full potential, because you are a catalyst for powerful positive change. Together, we can do anything, and can make this planet more of a heavenly Eden every day, as we become the embodiments of our passionate, caring souls, true goddesses of this aquarian age. With focus, dedication, encouragement and support, I am here for you.

If Goddess to Goddess Guidance sounds like just what you need, send me a message here to set up a complimentary introductory deep-dive.

List a few days & times in the message that work best for your schedule. 


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Your Transformational Journey will Include

Weekly (or bi-weekly) 1 on 1 Coaching Sessions (1 hour duration):

  • Further ground your soul purpose and stay aligned, while increasing confidence in your ability to live your truth and make a bigger impact in your own way.
  • Weekly challenges and accountability to create sacred structure from your core, step by step.
  • Receive individualized guidance week by week on energetic & spiritual practices to support you through your process.
  • Encouragement & empowerment when you feel stuck. Delving into and reprogramming the root of your limiting beleifs through affirmations & aligned action.
  • Clarity and alternate perspectives to help you see your situation and your path in new ways, to create a balanced approach that’s still true to you.
  • Keeping your focus steady so that you can move forward and start seing results now, while simultaneously building towards the vision of your future.
  • Weekly write-up to keep in hand, recapping your progress, goals, and guidance.

Transformational Energy Work (Two 30 or 60min sessions with insights ):

  • Two transformational energy-work sessions to clear your field and keep you coming back to center.(Beginning of the month and mid-month.)
  • Continuing to clear and align energetically helps you to stay centered in your truth, and connected with your intuition, while releasing blockages for smoother transitions as you challenge yourself to grow.
  • Combined with coaching, you will receive deeper insights into what is shifting in your field, which helps with seeing the best ways to support you, while being supportive in itself.

Messenger Support:

  • Feeling stuck, having a rough day, or need a boost of encouragement to get supernova through your challenges successfully between sessions?
  • Send a message or voice message and we can chat!  Receive bursts of support as you need it, during set hours throughout the week.
  • I’m here for you, and want to see you thrive and feel have the backup you need to create this new foundation inside yourself and in your life, and to bust through fears and insecurities as they arise.
  • I’m here to powerfully serve you, because you are such an amazing catalyst for positive change. If you’re thriving, the world is a better place, and my mission is a success.
  • Don’t be afraid to reach out. I like to keep it personal. I’m a friend as much as a coach. I really care, and I’m here for you!

Bonus Gift:

  • Personalized Affirmation or Guided Meditation Recording, based on our first conversations and what you’re transforming in your life.
  • Watch your resistance relax away, and your confidence increase, as you open to your powerful transformation, through the power of your subconscious mind.
  • Activate the law of attraction with the ease of pushing a button and listening, through the daily focus of where you are heading.
  • Enjoy a simple method of reprogramming your limiting beliefs and visualizing yourself moving towards your own beautiful and unique new reality.
  • Combined with coaching for the practical side of things, and the energetic support, adding the subconscious reprogramming to the picture MASSIVELY supports your ability to move through your challenges and identify with the version of you living this new version of your life much more smoothly.



You are not alone in this. We have each other. Let’s make your life wonderful. I look forward to hearing from you!

If Goddess to Goddess Guidance sounds like just what you need, send me a message here to set up a complimentary introductory deep-dive.

List a few days & times in the message that work best for your schedule. 

Lots of love,

Jennifer Rae

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Why Sage is Your Besty | Energy Cleansing Ceremony & More | Aquarian Goddess

One of the best ways to create the feel you’d like in your home, or in your day, or to just get in the zone, is smudging with sage.

Along with its spiritual cleansing properties, it is also antibacterial, and releases beneficial negative ions into the atmosphere (the same kinds released by waterfalls and pink salt lamps).

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Witchy tips: Sage is for more than just smudging.

While it may be our go-to, sage is more versatile than a lot of us tend to make use of day-to-day.

A sprinkle of culinary sage on your dinner, with a positive intention, can have a gentle healing and cleansing effect of the energy of all who taste it (while having a wide range of medicinal properties including immunity-boosting and reducing inflammation, and promoting balanced blood-sugar, and mental clarity, while being anti-microbial and straight-up tasty). A tea of culinary sage can be sipped for wisdom, prosperity, and to comfort sorrow.

A tea of any type of sage can be spritzed around the house for cleansing and protection for those whose sinuses are sensitive to smudging, or a few drops of an essential oil can be added to a diffuser to disperse it through the house, or add it to a ritual bath (bonus cleansing if you also add salt 😉). You can keep a plant of it near you door as a guardian, even if you just have space for a small potted plant.

The leaves are a powerful “paper” for writing your intentions for manifestation, and keeping it under your pillow can ward off bad dreams, or in a sachet with abundance intentions (or in your purse or wallet) to increase your wealth.

Different sages have different specialties. Clary sage can uplift the mood. White sage is the most potent protector. And creating your own intuitively guided way to connect personally with the spirit and energy of sage will strengthen any of these results.

Remember to trust your power and your allies, and everything will unfold as it’s meant to. Happy witching, friends. 😉

For guidance on your spiritual path, and intuitive energy work, send me a message. I’d love to help your purpose unfold.

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Join me in a little cleansing ceremony to shift your energy for today, and experience how calm and powerful you can feel when embracing a ritual mindset for yourself during your day.

 

 

It’s a beautiful thing to make the decision that today, in this moment, you are creating a positive change.  That you are doing something to make your life a little better.

Keep with these positive changes all along the way.  And sooner than you realize, you’ll be looking back at the you from ten years ago so proud of how far you’ve come, and shining with a confidence you never knew you’d have.

And I’ll be here with you along the way, supporting you as a sister, however I can, Goddess to Goddess.

All my love,

Jennifer Rae
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Faerie Oracle Card Reading | More than Who we Were | Week of November 19th

This week, we will be delving into the realm of the Fae, to explore the secret wisdom hidden within the trees, the waters, the skies, and deep within the heart of it all.

Here, we will explore the energies of the week to come, allowing us to gain deeper insight into the best way to reach into ourselves and pull out what is needed to most effectively thrive when meeting each day.

So, grab a cup of tea, light a candle, and get settled in for a nice moment of exploration together.

Once you’ve met the Fae, the world is never the same again.

You’ll feel their presence beckoning you to dance.  You’ll hear laughter in the rustling of the leaves.

You’ll find a certain sense of peace knowing there’s a reason for the animal you just spotted appearing to you in just the way that it did.

Faery wisdom is something to be deeply revered, as it is a river that runs deeper than much of what we’ve seen here on the surface of things as humans.

So remember, for this week, the following energies will help us.

Being present, really knowing our truth, and knowing that the universe has our back, while exploring our inner and outer worlds.

Digging deep into the strength, wisdom, and everything that we’ve learned through struggle that has helped us to overcome, and utilizing that wisdom and strength to overcome the challenges that approach on our path to greatness.

Looking at things differently towards the week’s end.  That we haven’t seen all that there is, and our opinions need to be a little more flexible.

And throughout this whole week, remembering that we are so much more than who we have been, and what has happened to us.  We have grown and healed so much, and when we shine our light into the darkness, we will see others who can benefit from us sharing what helped us to heal those same wounds.

And as always, I’m also here for you, Goddess to Goddess.

All my love,

Jennifer Rae

Faerie Oracle | Aquarian Goddess

Of Spirit & Earth – How to Tune in to Nature’s Cycles

We are infinite.  Sacred beings.  Born of stardust and molten rock.  Swirling tides and the passion between lips.  We move in spirals with the seasons and the skies, and we tend to forget the magick that pours through our essence.  It is time to remember.

I’d like to share this with you, as I’ve had a powerful impact from this song since I was about sixteen. It sinks me deeply into my universal awareness, observing participation with archetypes of my cyclical flowing pagan roots, and an experience of the beauty of what it means to bridge earth and spirit in the midst of the infinite.  

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Listen to: Gaia Consort – Drawing Down the Moon

Ritual.  Bring it into your life.  In ways small and large.  In harmony with your essence, and touching the existence we were born of, whether by the cycles of the moon, or the sun, or the seasons, or simply reaching into the mystery of night with a candle and smiling into the infinite potential that you are here to activate for yourself.

Let your intentions for your life become a sacred moment.  Sit down.  Tell the Universe what you want to create.  Ask for guidance and insight.  And listen.

Tune this moment into the cycles of nature in whatever way feels natural.  I write my intentions at either the full or new moon, based on how I’m guided, send energy into them over the month, and then release them with pure trust to the Universe by fire, outside, under the light, or the shadow, knowing that they will be born in accordance with the flow that is needed in my life, and all of life around me.

And at times, I simply draw down the energy of the full moon, grounding it into the earth with the intention of illumination and harmony.  For All of Life.  Rippling out from the place where I stand, like a silver liquid pool, ever-expanding.

Whatever you choose to do, let it be your own.  In alignment with your inner truth and knowing.  And know that as you go, I am always walking beside you, a sister honored to be a part of your journey, and share in our sacred wisdom, Goddess to Goddess.

Bright blessings,

Jennifer Rae

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North & South Nodes – The Power of You – Live Video 30 Day Challenge

The Power of You.

The strongest force in the Universe lives inside of you.

Stand strong and let it come out today.

If you didn’t catch the live-stream on Instagram announcing the Power of You live video series, to help you break free into your best life possible, from the inside out, you can still find it here in my blog.

I committed to this 30 Day Challenge doing one live video on Instagram daily, to help bring myself out of my comfort zone and into greater communication with you! 

I have so much to share with you about the tools and practices and perspectives that help to bring out the power that rests deep within each of us, so that you can live and thrive in accordance with the core of who you are, embodied to the fullest.

In this first short episode, I share the story of how the idea for this series was sparked by a magnificent coaching call with Klara Hodulakova where we dug down deep to the bottom of what had been holding me back from expressing myself fully and really letting myself shine true in my business in the way that I desperately wanted to show up.

 

 

One of the things that I realized was that my perfectionist tendencies were stopping me in my tracks left and right (sound familiar?) and every time I’d think about putting myself out there in a new way, I’d come up with twelve reasons why I didn’t know just the right strategy (only to answer her questions about how much I love to share messages through video, and love YouTube and Instagram as platforms), didn’t have the perfect lighting and equipment (when mine is perfectly suited for live video and can improve over time), and was concerned I’d run out of ideas for the the steady stream of information I’d need to share to be consistent enough (when I could literally ramble about mystical and grounded self-improvement all day every day to whoever’s listening, because let’s face it, that’s the only thing my brain is focusing on besides being in greater harmony with nature, and the occasional Disney song.)

After this realization, that my perfectionism was holding me back in such a massive way from expressing myself to the fullest to the world, when I already know that doing just that is my whole purpose and message and goal, I realized the relevance it had to my astrology, particularly my north and south nodes.

In our natal charts, our north and south nodes tell us the direction we’re meant to move toward, in our approach to life, and the opposite of it that we are starting from.  For example, my north node is in Pisces, which means that in this life, I am meant to move more towards my spiritual, trusting, intuitive nature, and to let go of my tendency to get caught up in too much of the life approach of my south node, which is in Virgo, and shows up as a tendency to deeply analyze, strategize, and have every single detail in perfect order.  To be coming away from my south node means that I’ve had an overabundance of attention to detail, and need to lighten up about the details not always being smudge-proof and lined up in nice little rows.  To trust that who I am and what I offer is good enough because of what it is, and that its appearance is not here for me to be judging.  That it is a gift from the divine, no matter what it is shaped like, and that it should be treated as such and be free to flow in its raw and natural glory.

Sometimes we need to be reminded by a mirror of how we’re not walking our talk in an area we were trying to hide from ourselves. 

No matter how many years of self-improvement we’ve had, we will always be growing and challenging ourselves in new ways, and we will always have revelations about things we didn’t realize we were doing, because we disguised it as not being ready, by limiting beliefs.  And so here I am, full force, ready to share with you SO much from the core of my being, to help you break free in more and more ways, on this exhilarating 30 day journey into The Power of You.

Be sure to follow me @_aquarian.goddess_ so you can tune in on Instagram at 5pm EST today for the next Power of You live video! I’ll give you a hint as to the next topic.  It’s something we were masters of in our childhood, but never realized would be a practical and magical force that can transform our lives today.  Any guesses? 😊🌸🍃

Expectations, Joy, and Creating Balance

I was inspired by an instagram thought-stream by Brittany Greer, where she talks about expectations.

It rang especially true for me, as expectations have been one of the most difficult and important things to be aware of in my life so far, and are truly the foundation of so much of our inner turmoil.

They’re a main focus for me, because of my sensitivity to them when they’ve been placed on me. When you think about it, any moment of displeasure, whether it’s not liking someone’s demeanor, or the choices they make, or your boss being annoyed that you’re not performing well at your job, or you just not liking your job, it’s all based on the experience being in contrast to our expectation that life is supposed to be comfortable and enjoyable.

It sounds strange when you think about it like that, but it makes sense when you break it down.

“I’m annoyed because I don’t like my job.”
-Really Means-
“I expect that jobs should be more fulfilling and enjoyable.”

In a given moment, the thing which we’re observing does not live up to our expectations. That’s the reason why we feel upset. This natural reaction shows us that on a subtle level, deep in our core, we actually expect every single thing in life to be extremely likeable. We know that something better is possible, and we’re kind of bothered that it’s not happening right now. On one hand, it’s incredible to be so in tune with our preferences, but on the other hand, well, following our preferences could easily get way out of hand, and become a toned down version of when my nieces are feeling a little too entitled.

I’ve been spending a lot of time around my nieces lately, and my sister was talking with me yesterday, asking my thoughts on why they seem to have so much trouble focusing and why they’ve been having more of an attitude lately when they aren’t getting their way.

My perspective was simple, and inspired by a conversation on how our behavior is so rooted in the way that, as children, we’re raised. Our society starts us off as small children thinking that the foundation of our everday lives, and our main goal, is simply entertainment. Seeking joy. And don’t get me wrong, seeking joy is one of the most important things that we can practice in our lives, as it will, when balanced properly, guide us to our purpose, and help us to make the right choices that will guide us to where we truly belong. But when they’re unbalanced, we become closed off, angry, depressed, or just plain spoiled rotten. So how do we prevent that? And where did it all start?

I’ll go back to the example of society and children. In our great-grandmothers’ generation, and through all of our recorded history before that, the majority of children grew up in a vastly different environment on too many levels to count. They weren’t bombarded with bright, shiny objects and loud, glowing screens full of imaginary people and stories for hours on end.

They sat in quiet homes, and in nature, with their family. The only things they had to observe around them were the daily actions that helped their family to live a stable life. They watched gardens grow. They watched homes be built with the help of the community. They sat with their mothers and fathers while they cared for animals, did the sewing, prepared the meals with plants that they understood. Their lives were slower and had an obvious purpose, were connected to the natural cycles, and their games with other children were understood to be a very small part of what they were here to be and do.

Their ability to self-discipline and follow the requests of their family were understood as being a top priority, and there was not as strong of a sense, as they developed, that their own entertainment could take over, without the household falling apart. Obviously, children are still children, and it takes time and practice and persistence to form solid healthy habits in life, but with so few distractions, and a sense of being a part of something, their relationship with the expectations placed on them was more solid, more natural, and more real.

For those of us in my generation who grew up without that upbringing, it was a little more like a swirling chaos of Nickelodeon, gameboys, and, oh, we had to go to school because they tell us to. Not a lot of parents (at least based on the conversations I’ve had with many of my peers) even strongly emphasized that being a child is training you for adulthood, in a practical way that really prepared us for things, and just kind of said that someday we’d go to college and get a job, and left the rest up to the schooling systems.

So, a lot of us floundered. A lot of us didn’t even have meals together, or do anything together as a family on a daily or weekly basis. In my home, tv was the only activity, and our dinner was eating while staring into it, without anyone learning anything about each other’s lives, or talking about what was going on in the lives of the adults. There wasn’t a natural observation of adult life that would allow me to prepare myself mentally for what it would be like to learn to balance everything, and have self discipline, feel like an important part of something, or truly learn to relate to others in a kind and healthy way. This was simply because we didn’t talk, we didn’t work together in any way, and everyone was too busy distracting themselves with the brain-candy of the moment, inbetween obligations we didn’t see a reason for (besides “I’ll get in trouble if I don’t”) and pretty much ignoring everything else.

For those of us with this kind of upbringing, it can be very difficult to look at the world we’ve just graduated into and not feel confused, irritated, lost, and overwhelmed with how many things we feel no sense of passion or purpose about, and no obvious way to figure out how to fix it. So, too many of us end up starting off by just finding a job that pays okay, and binge Netflix on the weekends because, what else is there when you don’t really wanna get up?

Then we feel cranky about our job (because we settled for it, but somehow still expect it to be perfect, instead of looking for a creative way to make a living) and we grumble that there’s nothing on Netflix (because we’ve already spent too much time on there and expect it to entertain us forever, instead of thinking about something cool we could learn, or share with the world, and trying it) and we get mad at the people around us (because we expect them to be somebody they’re not, and satisfy our need for love, understanding, fun, and intellectual stimulation, instead of giving more of those things to ourselves, and those people, for being exactly who we each are).

We expect that life should be entertaining. We expect that things should be easy. We expect that the right path will be laid out in front of us, because that’s what we’ve known moving through the world to be like. And we don’t know how to direct ourselves, because no one showed us. And we’re sincerely bothered by everything and everyone that doesn’t match what we know we need, instead of turning to ourselves to find the answers, because we don’t even realize that we have them.

Thanks to these expectations we place on others, and on our world, and even on ourselves, our judgements and the ways we hold ourselves back are born from our comfort zone, when they should be based on whether or not something (or someone) is healthy and fulfilling for us as a whole.

So, the question is… day to day, how do we find the balance?

We start by noticing our emotions, and instead of complaining or shutting something out, pausing to ask ourselves,
“What is missing from this, that makes it bother me?”

If you’re sitting at home on the weekend and feel unbearably bored, what’s missing? Is it adventure? Is it depth? Is it wanting to be a part of something? Is it creative expression? Is it love? Is it wanting to feel accomplished in the world, like you’ve done something important?

If you’re annoyed, or just kind of dismissing a person or an idea, why do you feel that way? Do they remind you of someone who hurt you before? Is it something that feels unfamiliar and maybe makes you uncomfortable to imagine yourself being a part of?

In a conversation, it might be that you feel bothered by someone being rude. Respect is missing. How can you calmly address it? Tell them gently what you noticed. If they show no interest in cocreating a peaceful interaction, it’s okay to set a boundary and walk away.

On the opposite side, in a relationship, whether work or personal, if someone is placing too many expectations on you, and you feel overwhelmed, it’s okay to let them know, and see how you can work together to create solutions, or spread out the work in a healthier way for everyone.

And in your life in general, if something you’re doing doesn’t feel fulfilling, or doesn’t feel like enough, feel it out. Take it step by step and really look at what’s important to you, and go from there. What do you care about, and why? How do you want to make a difference? What are your skills, and what are the new skills that your purpose would require?

If you’re still figuring out your path, think about what you’d want to see the world look like 20 years from now. Think about what problems in the world really hurt to think about. Think about what kinds of activities light your heart up. And think about how they could all fit together into one life.

In my coaching program, Goddess to Goddess Guidance, I take you deeply into the questions that reveal your true essence to yourself, to help you figure out what it really is that’s right for you, on your own terms, in your own way, and work week by week to make it happen, together, as you grow.

Discovering your purpose is a beautiful unfolding that breathes life into you in ways you never knew it could. And I say that from experience. The more that I’ve surrendered to not only the things that bring me the greatest joy and fulfillment, but also the challenges that appear in my path along the way, I’ve become stronger, wiser, and more free and satisfied than ever before, even though I feel like I have so far to grow. This is the journey I want for you, dear goddess, because you are a light uniquely all your own. You will find your way, and I’m always here to walk beside you, Goddess to Goddess.

All my love,

Aquarian Goddess Jen